Sunday, October 4, 2009

Bringing Baby Home


Your baby faces many trials after his birth. A newborn is often stressed out as he tries to accept his new surroundings, irrespective of what kind of birth he may have had. An infant often seems baffled in the first few weeks of his life. You both struggle to adjust to each other and all the others try their best to bring about some semblance of order. The change will be smooth if you manage not to get worked up.

Talk often to your baby: As he recognizes your voice as he has heard it before when he was inside you. Being able to identify with the tone of your voice, he finds it easy to accept things around him. The cadence of your voice as you tell a story or sing a song will work wonders for your baby.

Make eye contact: While babies do not have 20/20 vision at birth, they can see you. Your newborn will reciprocate to your method of communication if you are handling and talking to him in the right way.

Touch is important: Just stroking the arms, legs, back and head will create a marked difference in your bonding with him. Regularly massaging your newborn will give you the opportunity to have a prolonged physical contact with him. Massage relaxes and induces him to sleep well.

When you hold your baby, he not only feels comfortable but also secure. This keeps him happy. This and the warmth of your body quickly send him to sleep in the crook of your arms. Therefore carry your baby around the house in a sling and you can complete a few chores too as your hands are free.

So attend to him immediately. Do not give in to tears yourself and ignore him. Your infant needs to be hugged first and then his problem looked into. She will lose no time and respond to his need.

Worried that you'll spoil him? Don't be; meeting your baby's needs is not spoiling or harmful to him. Closeness will grow with your paying constant attention to him. It's not uncommon for moms to feel out of sync with their babies in the first few weeks. But communicating your love to him through all his senses goes a long way toward calming those delicate newborn nerves. Find more baby advice from our parent site: www.new-mom-and-baby.com

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